by Sarah Nicastro, Creator, Future of Field Service
I’m just returning from a four-day retreat hosted by Natalie Kuhn at MEA outside of Santa Fe, New Mexico. MEA is a retreat center founded by Chip Conley, TED speaker and New York Times bestselling author of Wisdom at Work: The Making of a Modern Elder. The Santa Fe campus is on Rising Circle Ranch, a regenerative horse ranch that spans nearly 2,600 acres of wildlife, hiking trails, winding arroyos, ancient petroglyphs, and awe-inspiring beauty.
As part of the experience, we were ushered by the Ranch Manager, Lee Johnson, to an experience with the ranch’s horses. I have never spent a lot of time with horses, so I learned quite a bit throughout the afternoon and was struck by how much of what I was taking in correlates to today’s business landscape: what makes for an effective leader, how crucially important culture is, and the many forms resilience can take.
Lee and his colleague Maryann began by sharing some facts about horses, including that horses have existed for 56 million years, which is just incredible to ponder. They explained some of the facets that make it possible for a species of prey animals to have existed so long, one of which is the way horses herd. As they explained the relational nature of the herds, they shared that horses have a very specific culture that is centered around five key tenets:
- Safety
- Connection
- Peace
- Freedom
- Joy
How incredible is it that horses find crucial these very things that we as humans do, too? Moreover, that these tenets have served as the foundation for how these herds have engaged and lived for millions of years. Learning about how central culture is to how horses live got me thinking quite a bit about the growing significance of company culture. When we consider resilience, whether of the horse species or of a business, having these core principles to anchor around is vital. But the principles can’t simply exist; they must be genuinely and consistently embodied. I know nearly every business today has cultural values they can point to on a wall or on their website, but I do question how many are weaving those values into the fabric of how the business is run and how its people are treated.
Leaders Create Power with Teams
Another very specific point I found powerful is when Lee shared that the herd leader, which is almost always a mare, focuses on creating power with – not over – the other members of the herd. If that doesn’t perfectly summarize what’s needed from leaders today, I don’t know what will. Gone are the days of command-and-control leaders; what’s required today are those who can expertly curate a team of diverse and well-honed skills and then empower that team to rally around the company’s values and objectives.
Finally, Lee spoke at length about the almost inconceivable perceptiveness of horses. He explained that when horses interact with humans, they don’t respond well to incongruence. Meaning, if you’re fearful of a horse, that’s OK – but if you’re pretending not to be, the horse senses that incongruence with unease. This brought to mind the importance of authenticity; leaders who create influence by being themselves and by connecting with their teams in a genuine manner are far more effective than those who are guarded, overly poised, or have thinly veiled motives.
During the retreat we not only spent time with the horses but also exploring the beautiful land of New Mexico and learning about its native people and rich history. While there’s certainly value in reading leadership books and attending seminars, it can also be quite profound to tap into some of these other sources of insight for not only leadership lessons, but really life lessons.
Taking the time away from my family and from work to attend this retreat reminded me of my recent conversation with Laurie Battaglia after her keynote at Field Service Palm Springs, driving home the importance of leading yourself first. It can be quite challenging to invest the time, but we need to nurture our inner selves if we want to create external energy that will benefit our loved ones and also our teams, our customers, and the wider communities beyond. Doing so is also key to resilience. However you disconnect, unplug, and reconnect with yourself, continue to invest in your peace and your perspective; it will pay dividends.